Some Simple rules for an effective relationship

-- Don't blame your partner though its their mistake
-- Always accept your mistakes
-- Don't remind about the mistakes your partner do in the past,
for eg: ' the thing you did in 1958 june 2nd ....."
-- Discuss everything
-- Be a very good listener
-- Don't argue
-- Take initiative in completing things instead of waiting on your partner to start
-- Meditate daily
-- Take care of your kids, its a mutual responsibility
-- Always appreciate your partner if you think he/she has done something good
-- "Sorry", "Please" and "Thank you" are some of the only few words which are proven to be highly beneficial, use as frequently as possible every single day.
-- Anger has no place, sorry, it has to go away, no excuses
-- Retorts, Satires, Teasing have no place either
-- Be thankful that you are part of a family
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I'll add when I get to know some more